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Better Sex Community and Writing Identity are tied at 5.0/5 in this head-to-head comparison. Better Sex Community has 1 member review and Writing Identity has 10. All ratings come from real member reviews. The full breakdown below should help you decide.
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Writing IdentityWriting Identity comes out ahead on ratings, review count, or recommendation rate. That said, Better Sex Community might still be the better pick depending on what you're after. The review themes above break down what each one does well.
Better Sex says it all
This is a safe space for exploring your sexuality in different ways and improving your sexual relationship with your partner. We talk about this often taboo, topic in a way that is empowering and not titillating. Deborah Kat is all about communication and a wonderful guide into a world where many have often felt alone.
Jill Hart · Jan 29, 2026
Amazing Community and Mentorship
Alli has created something really special in The Village. Between the daily prompts, classroom, weekly zoom calls, and her 1:1 mentorship; it is a space where I feel free to be myself, write ugly without judgment, and feel genuinely supported and encouraged to hear my own voice again. I have been working 1:1 with Alli and have learned so much about myself. She has helped me put words to things I had been feeling for a long time but wasn’t able to explain. She has created and shared tools to help me work through my emotions and finding myself again. Alli has been so thoughtful, supportive, and intuitive from the very beginning, and I feel truly seen and understood. I highly recommend Alli and her community!
Alicia Brandt · Aug 16, 2026
Alli Gatlin knows what she's talking about
Alli Gatlin knows what she's talking about. Her journaling advice and written prompts are excellent, but what proved even more valuable to me was talking with her one-on-one. The combination of encouragement and plain-spoken truths she delivered allowed me to overcome the worst of my self-doubt and really embrace a sense of confidence. Highly recommend.
Dan Jolley · Jul 1, 2026
Alli is a professional writer and a great person!
Alli is a professional writer and a great person! We're not only learning to write, overcoming writing anxiety, but also having fun in the community. Alli is a great person to be around!
Paul Sirvinskas · Jun 17, 2026
Both have a ProveWorth Score of 5.0. It's a toss-up on paper. Read the member reviews above to see which one fits what you're looking for.
Better Sex Community is free and Writing Identity is $6/mo. Better Sex Community is free, so there's nothing to lose by trying it first.
Better Sex Community is rated 5.0/5 across 1 reviews. Writing Identity is rated 5.0/5 across 10 reviews, with members highlighting community support.
Yes. There are plenty of other relationships communities with member reviews. Browse the Relationships directory or check the best relationships communities page for the complete ranked list.